FINALLY SPEAK YOUR DISOBEDIENT DOG’S LANGUAGE

 

Even if it’s is reactive, rescued, or you feel like you’ve tried everything to change their behaviour but nothing has worked so far 

You love your dog

But the way he behaves in certain situations has left you wondering how much longer you can cope

Treats don’t work
And the experts who promised you a calm well-behaved dog met their match with your dog

The dog walk that was supposed to be fun, now has you on edge

You want to let him off the lead but you never know how he’s going to react with an over friendly puppy or a lab who just wants to play
Friends have stopped visiting
And you are on edge …even asking ‘could rehoming be the answer’ even if it would break your heart

 

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But here’s what no trainer told you:

 

The constant barking, the lunging and the pulling  aren’t behaviour issues.
They’re developmental ones.

What you’re seeing are the symptoms of a dog that never got to feel safe enough to grow up the way they were meant to.

And no amount of obedience, redirection, or managing “triggers” will fix what it didn’t get in the first place

That’s where The Forgotten Language of Dogs begins.

 

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We don’t train dogs. We translate them.

Using the language of wolves

This work didn’t come from textbooks.
It came from the wolves themselves.

Shaun has spent decades immersed in the world of wolves, not from a distance, like a biologist with a clipboard, but from within.

He lived alongside both captive and wild wolves, learning through relationship, not research.
He spent years with the Nez Perce people, whose worldview quietly affirmed what he’d already come to know:


The wolf doesn’t just teach us about animals.
The wolf returns us to balance, dignity, and the right way to live.

That belief took him deeper.

Eventually, Shaun lived with a family of wild wolves in North America for over two years, a fully immersive experience that gave him access to something few people will ever know:


the real rhythm of wolf development.
How they create safety.
How they raise their young.
How they repair rupture.
And how none of it relies on dominance or control.

From that understanding, The Hemene Approach was born.
A relational, developmental blueprint for how dogs, and humans, come back into co-regulation.

We built this work together. 
And now, we’re the only people to bring this framework to you so you can  finally understand the dog you love,
and build a bond that doesn’t rely on treats, tension, or fear.

And since then, we’ve guided hundreds of dog guardians, professionals, and rescue advocates through a lens that doesn’t train behaviour, it restores relationship.

“I used to hop from course to course, read all the books, watch all the shows, and still feel powerless. Until this course. In one moment I broke and healed all at once.”

You will

✅ You’ll finally recognise the emotional gaps behind the behaviours no training has been able to shift, and learn how to gently repair them.

✅ You’ll learn to read the signals your dog’s body has been sending all along, so you can respond in ways that feel safe, not controlling.

✅ You’ll stop managing triggers, and start becoming the calm centre your dog can co-regulate with, no cues, commands, or corrections needed.

✅ You’ll understand why your dog’s nervous system reacts the way it does, and how to build the kind of connection that replaces survival mode with trust.

✅ And you’ll start to see it in them, softer eyes, fewer explosions, faster recovery. Not because they’ve been trained, but because they finally feel safe.

“Before the course, I was desperately hoping for something that made sense. Today my dogs relax quicker because I see them, and they know I see them.”

     
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You’re ready if …

  •  You cross the street before your dog sees another dog or person because you know exactly how this is going to go.
  • You’ve done the kind training, the YouTube videos, the slow introductions, but you still can’t relax on a walk.
  •  You’re mentally scanning every room, every path, every guest for what might set them off, and it’s exhausting.
  •  You wonder if it’s too late to undo whatever happened before they came to you, and if you’re even the right person to help them.
  • You replay the outbursts in your head at night, wondering what you missed, what you did wrong, and why it’s still not working.

"Before joining the course I was hoping to learn to understand Beulah more, and to find out how to build relationship with her. I wanted to find out the 'whys' behind her behaviour. I knew this course would be different before we started! I had read Shaun’s book, and I realised this was a man who understood dogs from the inside. Beulah and I are at last becoming socially-bonded! We are growing a relationship together! She knows I am listening to her, and she reaches out with communication more and more. I feel that I will never look at the world the same way again!" - Anstice 

 

"Before the course, I was desperately hoping for something that made sense, not necessarily something easy, but something that truly gave me understanding in the why and how in connecting with the boys. The genuine feeling of 'I see and feel you, and I know you see and feel me too' which came somewhere in the mammal stage was overwhelming. Today, they relax quicker because I see them and acknowledge them. Lifechanging (for both the dogs and their human). Since learning the Forgotten Language, I feel trust in finally getting it right. It feels like the light is right here and now." - Claire

"Before we started the course we wanted to find a way, like using dog language, to tell Bailey it was ok, he’s safe, as he was scared every day. All the other ways were training with treats which seemed cold and missing the relationship. I wanted comfort through relationship. The mammal stage was wonderful, realising I could be his mum and repair what was missed. Today we definitely have a closer bond. No words can describe how special what you’re giving us is! Priceless! If Carlsberg did dog courses… probably the best in the world, but we say definitely the best and only one!" - Lorna & Carl

 

"Before I joined the course I was hoping to find a way to help my dogs with their reactivity. The moment that stood out for me was realising I could actually help them become calmer without using distractions such as treats. Now things between me and my dogs are a lot calmer and happier. There is a wonderful relationship developing between us. Since learning the Forgotten Language, I feel so grateful that I’ve had this experience." - Catherine

"I used to hop from course to course, read all the books, watch all the shows and still feel clueless and powerless. Feeling like I was failing my dogs. Until I took the Forgotten Language Course. The moment when all pieces fell into place was the first time I really experienced connection, sitting outside with Staf, a dog who had always struggled around others. We sat in unity and harmony. In that moment I broke and healed all at once. My heart cried tears of hope. Today my family and friends see it in the sparkle in my eyes. Since learning the Forgotten Language, I feel alive. Alive, connected, and blessed." - Veerle 

Format & Flow:


 4-month guided online journey


2x live calls/month with Kim & Shaun


Video, stories, live examples, no pressure to perform
Private community for support, questions, and witnessing


Safe for nervous-system learners (no shaming, no overwhelm)

You can join from anywhere.
You don’t need to be “good with dogs.”
You just need to believe there’s more to this than control.

 

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The Forgotten Language of Dogs

A lifetime shift in your relationship with your dog. Priceless compared to years of training that never touch the heart of the problem. 

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We know this is different. That’s why we want you to feel safe saying yes.

If you join the Foundation Course on the monthly plan and, by the end of the first month, you're not feeling hooked — if it’s not landing, resonating, or just doesn’t feel like the right path for you — we’ll refund that first payment in full. No questions, no pressure, no hard feelings.

We believe deeply in this work…
But more importantly, we believe in you finding what truly feels right.